Sassy is participating in the Jack Or Jill Hunt. You are looking for a small disk like item with the female symbol on it. The skin is the new group gift from Pixy Stix. The hair is the scribo gift from Exile.
Skin: Kira In Pink (Group Gift, Free) @ Pixy Stixx http://slurl.com/secondlife/Oceania/195/174/1004
Outfit: Cali Cute (Jack Or Jill Hunt Prize) @ Sassy! http://slurl.com/secondlife/Sassy/63/103/33
Hair: Violetta (Raven) (Scribo) @ Exile http://slurl.com/secondlife/Covet/132/136